• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer
  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest

You Are More

Motherhood + Lifestyle

  • Home
    • Home
    • Blog
  • Behind the Blog
    • About
  • Motherhood
    • C-Sections
    • Motherhood
    • Parenting
  • Homemaking
  • Mental Health
  • Contact
    • Work with Me
    • Privacy Policy + Disclosure
  • Shop
    • Shop
    • Resource Library
    • Join the Community

on June 8, 2018 · Leave a Comment

3 Tips to Handle Potty Training Regression

What to do when your potty trained toddler keeps having accidents.

This post is sponsored by Pull-Ups but the content and opinions expressed here are my own.

Have you ever potty trained a child? I think it has to be one of the WORST jobs as a parent. Literally. I would sleep train over and over if I could avoid potty training. I have said it a hundred times (maybe that’s why Jude hates sleep). I despise potty training. So you can imagine my feelings when I thought I had potty training down with Elyse, and then she went through an awful bout of potty training regression. More than once. It. Was. Awful. Potty training regression is more common than you think, and there are tips to help.

Potty training regression can be awful because it seems as if there is no end in sight. Not only that, but you know that they had it down once, and for whatever reason they are regressing.

So what do you do when potty training regression strikes?

Stay Calm and Evaluate

The first thing you want to do is get frustrated, trust me, I have been there. But staying calm is important. You don’t want to frustrate the situation more. Potty training is a big deal for little minds to grasp. Sit back and evaluate what could have changed in your circumstances. Did life get busy? Was there a big life change? Is there anything that could have caused the regression? Even if it seems like behaviorally they are fine, or the change seems small, it’s amazing what little things can be much bigger in their minds and contribute to potty training regression.

Set a Timer

Go back to the basics. Maybe your child is just getting distracted again and needs a little help remembering. Set a timer for every hour and make sure they at least try to go. This could be all that you need to do to solve your problem! Elyse needed to be in charge of her own time so that she felt more independent. I found this potty watch on Amazon and I cannot say enough things about it. It was a game changer. She loved the music, loved the timer, and loved not being told by me when to go. Seriously best invention ever.

Make it Fun

Potty training can be a drag…you already know how I feel about it, so you HAVE to make it fun. If you don’t make it fun, then it’s just not going to excite your child at all. Get a sticker chart, sing songs, pick out prizes. Find something that makes the experience of going potty fun! You want it to seem like a big deal! Pull-Ups Learning Designs Training Pants are a perfect way to way to make potty training fun and give your child the independence they need! When you are faced with potty training regression, the last thing you want to worry about is cleaning up messes all day. Pull-Ups Learning Designs Training Pants have great absorbency and reliable outstanding protection. They are designed with leg barriers to help prevent leaks. Your child can step in and slide them up and down just like underwear giving them big kid independence! Pull-Ups Learning Designs Training Pants also come with fading design when wetness is detected to help encourage your child in the process of potty training.

When you find yourself in a potty training regression phase, just remember it won’t be that way forever. Keep it fun, make it as easy on you as possible, and you’ll get through it.

What are your tips for potty training or handling potty training regression?

(Visited 9,310 times, 1 visits today)

Filed Under: Beyond Baby's First Year, Parenting Tagged With: Beyond Baby's First Year, Parenting, Potty Training, Potty Training Regression, Pull Ups, Pull Ups Learning Designs, Toddler

Previous Post: « 4 Simple Tips to Increase Baby’s Iron
Next Post: Happy First Birthday Jude! »

Reader Interactions

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest

VISIT THE SHOP:

Categories

Visit the Shop:

Footer

  • Home
  • About
  • Contact
You deserve to exist, with the same grace and love You deserve to exist, with the same grace and love that you so freely give to your family. It’s not just about holding space for them; it’s about holding space for you, too.

You don’t have to shrink yourself to make room for others.

You deserve to take up space too.
Sometimes, the habits that helped us survive becom Sometimes, the habits that helped us survive become the hardest to unlearn. Those patterns once kept you safe, but now you’re learning they don’t need to anymore. 

Give yourself grace—you’re unlearning survival. Healing takes time, and with each layer you peel back, you’re discovering the person you’ve always been beneath the survival.

And if you’re anything like me, you’ll really learn to love her. ❤️
✨ NEW SEASON ✨ I’m not a big fan of change. ✨ NEW SEASON ✨

I’m not a big fan of change. My nervous system gets all panicky and tends to over research every possibility that could take place. It likes to tell me safety is in the details. 

But I know that’s not true.

This year has been a big year of growth for me in this department. Trauma told me control was my safety, but the truth was all I ever had was a false sense of control. 

This year has offered plenty of opportunities for me to say, “Okay God, you have my yes, wherever that leads.”

No over research. No over analyzing. No predicting every possibility. No trying to control the outcome.

Just a heart that says, “Yes.” 

Even when I don’t understand. Even when I’m nervous how it will turn out. Even when it feels like right now isn’t bad. Even when my heart’s confused. 

Even when….

God has been asking us both a lot lately, “Do I have your yes, no matter what that looks like?” Friday was the end of a season for Chad working at the Appliance Guys, and today starts a new season of a new company. It was NOT an easy decision, and it came with a lot of tears (mainly from me - are you surprised?). His boss, where he’s been for the last almost six years, has been an incredible support for our family as we walked through some of the hardest seasons of our family. They will always hold a special place in our heart.

But God said “it’s time” and my faith-filled husband said “Yes.” I have to admit, I don’t envy how hard this decision was for him. It affects us both, yes. But he had to walk it out. And I’m so grateful for His leadership and faith to Jesus to step into the next season when there are so many unknowns.

Sometimes, all God wants to know is does He have our “YES” no matter what that means. No matter what that changes. 

May I live my life in a way that has an open heart to hear from God and a willingness to say “YES” even when….

(PS he was so thrilled I made him take this photo. 😂 But I know this season will be one we forever ever want to remember, because God always shows His faithfulness).
I wonder if they would have chosen life for her. I wonder if they would have chosen life for her.

I wonder if they would have seen what was growing inside of her, and the fight that was about to come on the other side, if they would have said her life was worth saving.

I wonder if they would have discounted her before she had a chance. 

I wonder if they would have made a prediction about her quality of life and deemed her not worth the cost.

I wonder if they would have saw the life saving measures she would need and decided that it was worse to let her live.

I wonder if they would have saw everything that could go wrong, the bleak prognosis, and compared her to statistics. 

I wonder if they would have made a choice to encourage a decision that robbed us all of the miracle we see today.

Whether 48 hours or 4 years - her life has changed mine for the better. It’s heartbreaking to think someone may have once told me she wasn’t worth it.

Looking for Something?

Copyright © 2025 · You Are More · Design by Studio Mommy

x